Is it OK to grieve the loss of an ex-husband from your early 20s if you’ve been happily married to someone else for 35 years?

I've been happily married for 35 years, but I still feel loss from my the death of my first husband who became my ex in our ...

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

How do I politely tell people I don’t like having anyone visit me in my home? My home is my safe haven. The energy of the ...

DEAR ABBY: How do I politely tell people I don’t like having anyone visit me in my home? My home is my safe haven. The energy ...

My home is my safe haven. The energy of the outside world drains me, and I don’t want that feeling inside my home. This ...

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

How do I politely tell my family I don't want people visiting at my home. I'm happy to meet with people elsewhere, in public ...

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

How do I politely tell people I don’t like having anyone visit me at my home? My home is my safe haven. The energy of the ...

Some of man's children, grandchildren consider him 'toxic' based on stories from his first wife — some true, some embellished ...

I want to be honest with him and help him, but I’m afraid it will change things and that money will put a wall between us.